Ask for Help without Shame

Many of us are hesitant to ask for help. We feel embarrassed or ashamed to ask. We think it makes us look weak or incapable. But, all of this is false.

It might not be easy to ask for help, but it is smart. Asking for help is a great way to take control of, and responsibility for, your life. There’s certainly no shame in asking for help.

Here are 9 reasons why you should ask for help without shame:

Remembering the times you’ve helped someone else is a confidence builder.

You’ve helped a lot of people over the course of your life. Do you think those people had a reason to feel shame because they asked for your help? You were probably happy to help. You even felt good about helping. You can make someone else feel good just by asking for assistance!

Asking for help is an assertive behavior.

There’s no reason to view asking for help as a weak behavior. Assertive people are more successful and take responsibility for their lives. You can practice being assertive by asking for help.

Getting help saves time.

Keep in mind that everything is faster with good help. Getting help is a smart move if you value your time. You’re more efficient when you ask for help. Don’t you want to be more efficient?

You can do a better job with expert help.

You’re not only faster with good help, you’re better. No matter what you need help with, there’s someone out there that’s more skilled or talented than you are. It only makes sense to ask for their assistance. At MoCo, this is what we discuss with our clients on a practical level with regards to strengths-based teamwork.

Remember that many people need help.

You only need to turn on the news to see how many people need help. It’s not surprising that you need help from time to time too. Would you turn down someone that sincerely needed your help?

Asking for help makes you swallow your pride.

Pride is rarely a good thing. Pride is often just a weak and overly sensitive ego. Be strong and just do it.

Asking for help helps you build your visualization skills.

Mentally rehearse asking for help. Visualize asking for help and receiving a positive response. Repeat the process until you can imagine asking for help without a negative emotional response. This is a great habit to build for a variety of situations. With enough mental practice, you can be comfortable doing just about anything.

You can practice asking for help by starting with something small.

Give yourself a little practice. Think of something you could use some help with that isn’t an imposition. Ask a friend for a dollar. Ask for some advice. Become comfortable with asking for help.

Gain clarity on where you should pay for help.

If you really need help, and you just can’t ask, then pay someone to help you. Whether you need help painting your house or need help for a mental health issue, there’s a professional that can help.

When you ask for help, you’re being efficient, assertive, and completing that task at a higher level than you could on your own.

Asking for help can be challenging, but it’s a smart move. Most people would love the opportunity to do something kind for someone else. People are so isolated these days, the person you ask will appreciate the chance to interact with someone in a meaningful way.

Swallow your pride and just ask. You have so much to gain and so little to lose. You can do it!

Use Your Gifts!

Melanie Massey Groves and Brian Russell with MoCo: Leadership, Strengths, and Culture Coaching

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Ask for Help without Shame

Many of us are hesitant to ask for help. We feel embarrassed or ashamed to ask. We think it makes us look weak or incapable. But, all of this is false.

It might not be easy to ask for help, but it is smart. Asking for help is a great way to take control of, and responsibility for, your life. There’s certainly no shame in asking for help.

Here are 9 reasons why you should ask for help without shame:

Remembering the times you’ve helped someone else is a confidence builder.

You’ve helped a lot of people over the course of your life. Do you think those people had a reason to feel shame because they asked for your help? You were probably happy to help. You even felt good about helping. You can make someone else feel good just by asking for assistance!

Asking for help is an assertive behavior.

There’s no reason to view asking for help as a weak behavior. Assertive people are more successful and take responsibility for their lives. You can practice being assertive by asking for help.

Getting help saves time.

Keep in mind that everything is faster with good help. Getting help is a smart move if you value your time. You’re more efficient when you ask for help. Don’t you want to be more efficient?

You can do a better job with expert help.

Remember that many people need help.

You only need to turn on the news to see how many people need help. It’s not surprising that you need help from time to time too. Would you turn down someone that sincerely needed your help?

Asking for help makes you swallow your pride.

Pride is rarely a good thing. Pride is often just a weak and overly sensitive ego. Be strong and just do it.

Asking for help helps you build your visualization skills.

You can practice asking for help by starting with something small.

Give yourself a little practice. Think of something you could use some help with that isn’t an imposition. Ask a friend for a dollar. Ask for some advice. Become comfortable with asking for help.

Gain clarity on where you should pay for help.

If you really need help, and you just can’t ask, then pay someone to help you. Whether you need help painting your house or need help for a mental health issue, there’s a professional that can help.

When you ask for help, you’re being efficient, assertive, and completing that task at a higher level than you could on your own.

Asking for help can be challenging, but it’s a smart move. Most people would love the opportunity to do something kind for someone else. People are so isolated these days, the person you ask will appreciate the chance to interact with someone in a meaningful way.

Swallow your pride and just ask. You have so much to gain and so little to lose. You can do it!

Use Your Gifts!

Melanie Massey Groves and Brian Russell with MoCo: Leadership, Strengths, and Culture Coaching

If you would like to read more content from MoCo on developing a stronger mindset, becoming a stronger leader, and building a stronger team, you can click on the links to our social media pages above.

If you would like to receive our Monday MOtivation emails in your inbox, you can click on the link below.